The Grass is Greener

The Grass is Greener…wishfull thinking

 I often have many conversations with people that are categorised by “The grass is greener”…

It’s a mind-set we all at some stage fall in to, so perhaps the question then is to consider if the failings are one’s of Choice, Inability or Given…

Most of my grass is greener  failures… (the word fail should not be used negatively in this journey of understanding, as it’s the way we interpret words that make them negative)… were initially down to inability… I had to learn as I grew…

Then they were given… the judgement of others changed my opinion on my version of my concept of grass is greener…

Now it is the turn of choice… I look within to see if it is a real concept that can be created or just a fleeting thrill that lives in day dreams and wishful thinking…

This last way of thinking is the most annoying to others, weirdly… I come up with so many ideas on a daily basis, some brilliant some not so… not all my ideas live longer than a smile or giggle but they live. The feeling of annoyance in others is because they don’t possess the ability to mentally wander…  they have succumbed to the world of the given, and let the wave of life take them where others dictate…

I sometimes ask myself it would be simpler to slip into that way of life!

The reality is I am the Id of Ego, so I will simply be… whatever I choose, some choices will be reality and some not, as long as I minimise my judgement of the choices of others, my world becomes one of more choice…

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